August
29, 2013.
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One year has passed |
A
year ago, I embarked on the biggest adventure of my life. A year ago, on this
same day, I left for Japan. A new place. A new experience. Ever since, a
lot of things happened. Good or bad, memorable or not, it was all worth
experiencing.
On
the month of June, on my last few weeks in my stay in Japan, I tried to make a
summary, reflection, and somewhat my message of thanks to important people in
my stay there. I never realized that it was impossible to reflect and give
thanks when youre still on that experience. So I decided to just finish giving
a summary and write the later two while I think about it after I go home.
“525,600
minutes. 525 thousand moments so dear. 525,600 minutes. How do you measure,
measure a year?”
These
are the first few lyrics of Rent’s Seasons Of Love. One of my favorite songs.
But moving on, how do you measure a year? How do I measure the life I spent in
Japan?
Going
to Japan was my lifelong and my initial dream for a higher dream. When I
entered college, since I loved Japan culture and the language, I decided that
this would be the first country I should visit before others. I had this dream
aimed after graduation, on my masters degree. But for some lucky and God-given
miracle, I got the opportunity 3 years earlier than I expected.
Before
I even came to Japan, I looked like this: a young, thin, innocent-looking kid
who hasnt reached puberty yet.
After
approximately 10 months, I realized i've changed a lot. My hair is long, thick,
color, and permed, I gained around 10 kilos, and I got the puberty that every
teenager went through.
In
my stay in Japan, i've had my share of all experiences: best, good, bad, worst.
Ive had unproductive times, and some were so busy I cant even imagine how I was
able to do those things. But most importantly, I was able to carve great
memories into my mind.
Since
it was nearly 5 months from the last time I posted something on my blog, I
wanted to just give my whole trip a quick summary and hopefully write each
experience on separate blog posts.
September
and October– Adjusting process. I had to cry because the food in Japan
was too expensive. Trying to adjust to the dorm life in 2nd Men's
Dormitory, living far from my family, and exploring Tokyo and making friends
and Joining clubs. In this time I was busy practicing my archery and at the
same time singing at the a capella club that I joined. First time at the
Pokemon Center!
November
–
somehow got used to the life in Tokyo (you cant generalize Japan life from
Tokyo life; Tokyo is a country in itself with a totally different lifestyle).
Got my first part time job at a phone factory, Travelled to Nikko. Somehow
adjusting again from the change of seasons (it was the peak of autumn). By this
time I gained 3 kilos.
December- My
18th birthday, alone. That was really sad. Met with my fellow
Filipino Foreign exchange students and spent a good Christmas Break around
Tokyo.
January
and February – Basically this was mostly on improving my Japanese skills.
Somehow unproductive because of winter. My first time to experience snow! Went
to Disneysea with my best friend. Also did Mochitsuki and alumni homecoming of
the dorm. And I don't know if its because of winter, or I just ate too much,
because I gained a total of 10 kilos on that time!
March –
Met with my fellow Filipino foreign exchange students again and travelled
around Kansai (Osaka, Nara, Kyoto, Kobe) and Fukuoka. A lot of first times
(including coloring my hair). I guess the most rare experience I had was when I
travelled from Fukuoka to Tokyo by local train on two days! (Refer to previous
blog post: )
April –
The most beautiful time of the year! The Cherry blossoms were a great sight!
The dorm had new members (they call it by the year of graduation, to its 17s).
I was not able to participate in the first few initiation days (since it was
still vacation, and I was in my uncle's house in Saitama). Basically I was
ready to go home (with my flight booked and all). But boy was I wrong. I guess
my feelings of wanting to go home got disrupted when I became friends with the
17s in our dorm. I still remember it on how I got invited on a dinner together
with them. I guess we got close since we were all 18 year olds (and I'm second
youngest :D). Ever since, we then did a lot of things together. Got to eat
Okonomiyaki for the first time, and lost at a rock-paper-scissor game for the
first time (because you have to treat everyone for ice cream if you lose T.T).I
was also able to enhance my Japanese skills (not to mention learn some nasty
and slang words >:D). I got to know other people too from other dorms. And I
lost 3 kilos in this time, probably because I started jogging since the weather
was warm enough. Got in ICU Hub because I got to hang out with them often
before our Korean class.
May –
Probably the most unforgettable time of my stay in here. Did a LOT of first
times. I don't even know where to start. The best was the Golden Week Holiday.
With the 17s, I was able to go eat my first raw meal at Tsukiji Fish Market,
attended at a Japanese Christian Church with my dorm mate's family, and did a
homestay (technically it was that way) at Tochigi. And at that time, I also
wore a Japanese high school uniform, and got to experience a kotatsu for the
first time! That time, the most memorable was probably lying down in the middle
of the rice fields and just staring at the sky full of stars, something you
don't experience in Tokyo. Then went up Tokyo Tower on the next day. The
following weekend I was with my best friends on lunch at a themed restaurant.
It was great! On the last week of May, me, my previous roomate, his girlfriend,
and his new room mate went and travelled together at Mt. Fuji and around it.
Went to the 5th station of the mountain, went around caves, and the
famous Aokigahara Forest (Suicide forest). On a day we were able to do a lot of
things. Plus, I was able to eat probably the MOST interesting meal. It was
called Motsu. Guess what its made of? Cow's womb. O.o
June- I
already sound like a bipolar by this time, telling people on how i'm excited to
go home, and on how I still don't want to go home at times. I'm all set for
home: my stuff are sent back, i'm around 20% from packing, my papers and
requirements are now finished, and i'm enrolled back at my home university. Now
i'm just waiting for my final exams, and then gonna meet people for the last
time to say my goodbyes and thank you's.
And now I am back to
my home, it’s already the third month since I came home from Japan. I have
adjusted back to the climate, the school pressures, and the usual things I do
here. After everything that’s happened, it was just like a dream, as if I was
just sleeping the whole time thinking of these wonderful stuff that I
experienced. Sometimes out of nowhere the best memories of my stay in Japan
often come back randomly, when im asleep or when im doing homeworks. I guess my
heart hasn’t fully adjusted yet. And I guess what they say is true, once you
get out of your shell, there’s no going back in.
This experience
wouldn't be the best one weren’t it for everyone. I can’t enumerate all of you
here, but yes, I really mean everyone. Last year was a big stepping-stone into
going forward to my future, and to the realization of my dreams.